Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Making Love to a Virgin Girl

When you are making love to a girl who is a virgin, there are some things that you need to take note of so as to make it as pleasurable as possible for her. You will also need to take a lot of initiative here as she will more likely be very passive during lovemaking.

Handling a virgin is not as easy as you think. There are a lot of emotions and care involved here. The memory of having sex the first time will be in her memory forever, so it makes it more important for you to make the whole experience goes smoothly.

Let us discuss some of things to take note when it comes to making love to a virgin girl:

1. Calm her nerves. She will definitely be very nervous doing it the first time. Spend some time cuddling together. Take things slowly. A little alcohol may calm her down a little.

2. Give her assurance. As this will be a very emotional process for her, she will need a lot of assurance, care and love. Assure her that all these elements are present and demonstrate how much you love her by going the extra mile to make her first time as pleasurable as possible.

3. Do not enter her before she is wet. If she is not wet enough and you enter her, you may cause her a lot of pain. Make sure that you spend a considerable amount of time on foreplay and make her as wet as possible.

4. Be gentle. During intercourse, thrust in a slow and steady movement. Do not try too many "tricks" and keep it as simple as possible. It will be good to adopt at most 2 different positions.

Bear these 4 points in mind when you meet a virgin. You will not want her to remember you as the one who gives her a horrible sexual experience.

Monday, January 2, 2012

How to Use Dirty Talk During Sex to Make it So Much Hotter

How do you use dirty talk during sex to make your love life so much hotter? That is a question that many people have and I want to give you some tips that can make the entire process so much easier. Dirty talk is actually very healthy...in fact, it most therapists consider it one of the best things you can use to enhance love making. Many loving couples use this type of talk to kick up the heat in the bedroom and you can too. Don't let a fear of using this type of talk keep you from having the best sex you've ever had!

The first tip that I would suggest is to sit down with your partner and have a talk about what words are OK to use. This conversation needs to be honest and straight forward. Depending on the way that they were raised some words may be taboo. Having this talk before hand not only breaks the ice, but it can help you avoid any uncomfortable situation that may happen.

The second tip is that now it is the time open up to your partner. Take a long breath and just let the words flow easily. You don't want these words to sound like they wouldn't normally come from you. You may want to consider practicing using these words in a mirror to help you become comfortable with them. Just remember that every single person on this planet has a dirty side and now is the right time to tap into yours!

The third tip can make this erotic talk so much easier if you think about it. Use compliments! Everyone enjoys a compliment so tell your lover what turns you on about them physically or tell them how good you are feeling when they do those wonderful things to you.

Most importantly...have fun!
 
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